The best word is the unspoken word.
More Catalonian Proverbs:
Dancing at the carnival, baptizing on All Saints Day.Catalonian
Show me your wife and I will tell you what kind of a husband she has.
Catalonian
Talking of an old debt always starts another quarrel.
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The musician who is paid in advance does not play so well.
Catalonian
Women and cats in the house, men and dogs in the street.
Catalonian
At a wedding a bride eats the least.
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