Gently, not by force.
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All things stand under a fixed law.
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Habit causes love.
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Hitherto I gave you credit for having horns. [I gave you credit for not being wanting in courage.]
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Everyone is eloquent in his own cause.
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Not for you, not for me, but for us. [Non mihi, non tibi, sed nobis.]
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