Follow the customs or flee the country.
More Zulu Proverbs:
Blessed are those who can please themselves.Zulu
Do not leave your host's house throwing mud in his well.
Zulu
The rich are always complaining.
Zulu
Do not talk about a rhinoceros if there is no tree nearby.
Zulu
Copying everybody else all the time, the monkey one day cut his throat,
Zulu
Without life there is nothing.
Zulu