Different flowers look good to different people. Pick the flower when it is ready to be picked. The flower that you spent time to care for does not grow while the willow that you accidentally planted flourishes and gives shade. (Traditional Proverb) - More Traditional Proverbs...
And the wind said 'May you be as strong as the oak, yet flexible as the birch may you stand tall as the Redwood, live gracefully as the willow and may you always bear fruit all your days on this earth.' (Traditional Proverb) - More Traditional Proverbs...