The best place to find a helping hand is at the end of your own arm.
More Swedish Proverbs:
If you are among the roses, your friends will look for you among the thorns.Swedish
The master has long arms, but they don't reach heaven.
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Who is chasing after another must himself rest.
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A child is a certain sorrow and uncertain joy.
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A piece of bread in your pocket is better than a feather in your hat.
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One should go invited to a friend in good fortune, and uninvited in misfortune.
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