Your friend lends and your enemy asks for payment.
More Dutch Proverbs:
He that will have eggs, must bear with cackling.Dutch
Guessing is missing.
Dutch
Never wear a brown hat in Friesland.
Dutch
When the tree falls everyone runs to cut the branches.
Dutch
Talk of the devil and you hear his bones rattle.
Dutch
Young fools think that the old are dotards, but the old have forgotten more than the young fools know.
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