It is never easy to write a sympathy card. Finding the appropriate words to offer sympathy to someone who has lost someone can be difficult and upsetting. While you want to express your sympathy for their loss and suffering, you also want to avoid offending them. If you had no personal acquaintance with the dead, it can be very challenging.
Don’t forget to send your sympathy card within the first two weeks as well. It’s never too late, though, if you miss that chance. In reality, it might benefit the bereaved recipient who may believe that life has moved on despite the fact that they are still coping with their loss.
Short And Touching Condolence Messages
Even though the circumstances may not be perfect, this is the time when those who are grieving most need assistance. Although they might not acknowledge it, your small gestures of support might mean a lot to them. Here are a few examples of brief, uplifting condolence notes you might use.
I’m so sorry. My heart goes out to you
Please know that your friends love you and are here for you
My heart is heavy today, and I know yours is too
As you go through this difficult time, remember that you are so loved
I am thinking of you and your family and sending caring thoughts your way to support you through this
It is often hard to find the right words at a time like this. May you find peace, comfort, and all the love you need in the days to come
You and your family are in my prayers
I wish I was there with you right now. I am so sorry
I know you are very busy right now, but wanted you to know I’m thinking of you. Very sorry for your losS
I can’t imagine what you must be going through. I’m so sorry for your loss.
My sincerest condolences for you at this time. You have my deepest sympathy and unwavering support
Wishing you peace, comfort, courage, and lots of love at this time of sorrow
Never forget that you have friends who love you
Sharing in your sorrow. With love and friendship
My heart is aching for your loss
Know that we are thinking of you, remembering (Name) and celebrating his/her/their life
We shall always pray for you
This tragedy has devastated us all
Losing someone you love is never easy
Thinking of you, in this difficult time
May you find enough peace to comfort you
Let me offer my sincere condolences to you
[Name] is resting in the bosom of the Lord
Long Condolence Messages
Perhaps quotes aren’t the best way to say goodbye to a loved one. Maybe you’re looking for something more. A message or a sentence that captures the depth of your grief and makes you feel as if someone has written your heart on paper. These messages are filled with emotion, and you can use them to express your sorrow, grief, or hope for a reunion.
Even if we know it’s part of life, we are never ready to say goodbye forever. On this day our hearts are saddened for losing someone so dear to our hearts. We are not only mourning your death but also celebrating your life. May you rest in peace!
I wish there was a way to say a proper goodbye. Now what is left are the good memories of you. I will forever miss you.
We always seem like we have all the time, only to realize how short our life is. Now you are gone forever. I wish we had more time together, to do what we had planned. You will always be in me. You are more than a brother to me.
I ask why, why so soon. I believe you are now singing with the angels. We will dearly miss you. Rest in peace, my dear friend
When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight
Kahlil Gibran
Rest in peace, my adoration. The photos that have caught your heartfelt grin will consistently remain close to my bed, whispering to me that any place you will be, you are spreading happiness
Unknown
Your recollections are inked forever in my heart and I guarantee you that you will never be overlooked. Rest in peace
Unknown
Condolence Messages For The Loss Of A Mother
The agony of losing your mother is heartbreaking. Although we would want to never have to, time is a cruel mistress. We feel as though time has stopped when it comes time to say goodbye to the person who loved us the most in this world because it snatches away the things we treasure without missing a beat.
We can never truly understand what someone is going through, therefore there isn’t much you can do to assist someone who is in such misery. Telling them they are not alone is the least you can do. Use encouraging comments to help them get through these trying times. We understand that everyone struggles with language, and that’s okay.
Nothing can fill the void created by the loss of our dear Mother
Your Mother was one of the most beautiful people I knew, and she was a great Mom too. You have my sincerest sympathy for your loss
We are terribly sorry to hear about the passing of your Mother. May our condolences bring you peace during this painful time
Heartstrings always connect our love and loss into infinity. God bless your family
Your mother was a dear and special person. Please accept my condolences
Your mother was a strong and beautiful woman, and I always looked up to her
Sorry for your loss. A mother is a very special person, and there is no one else who is so dear to our hearts
You are a dear friend to me, and I want to support you in any way that I can during this time of grief
All of you are in our thoughts and our prayers. Also, remember that I am here for you
Your mother will be dearly missed by many, and we are holding all of you in our thoughts and prayers
All of you are in our thoughts and our prayers. Also, remember that I am here for you
My deepest condolences on the passing of your mother. She truly loved her family
All that I am – my mother made me
John Quincy Adams
No language can express the power and beauty and heroism of a mother’s love
Edwin Hubbel Chapin
There were times when…I didn’t have a lot of friends. But my mom was always my friend. Always
Taylor Swift
The best place to cry is on a mother’s arms
Jodi Picoult
Condolences On the Loss Of A Father
Until it’s too late, children take their parents for granted. When one of them abruptly departs, it is already too late to turn things around. No matter how much you want to go back in time, hold their hand just once more, have that final conversation again, or return that one missed call, the moment is passed.
Death ends a life, not a relationship
Robert Benchley
Only people who are capable of loving strongly can also suffer great sorrow, but this same necessity of loving serves to counteract their grief and heals them
Leo Tolstoy
The risk of love is loss, and the price of loss is grief – But the pain of grief is only a shadow when compared with the pain of never risking love
Hilary Stanton Zunin
No one ever told me that grief felt so like fear
C.S. Lewis
There is no grief like the grief that does not speak
Henry Wordsworth
If I can see pain in your eyes then share with me your tears. If I can see joy in your eyes, then share with me your smile
Santosh Kalwar
When my father didn’t have my hand, he had my back
Linda Poindexter
Perhaps they are not stars in the sky, but rather openings where our loved ones shine down to let us know they are happy
Eskimo Proverb
You will lose someone you can’t live without, and your heart will be badly broken, and the bad news is that you never completely get over the loss of your beloved. But this is also the good news. They live forever in your broken heart that doesn’t seal back up. And you come through. It’s like having a broken leg that never heals perfectly—that still hurts when the weather gets cold, but you learn to dance with the limp
Anne Lamott
If I had a single flower for every time I think about you, I could walk forever in my garden
Claudia Ghandi
My father gave me the greatest gift anyone could ever give another person. He believed in me
Jim Valvano
No matter how old we are, we still need our dads, and wonder how we’ll get by without them
Jennifer Williamson
This is the price you pay for having a great father. You get the wonder, the joy, the tender moments – and you get the tears at the end, too
Harlan Coben
Dad, your guiding hand on my shoulder will remain with me forever
Unknown
When I was a child, all problems had ended with a single word from my father. A smile from him was sunshine, his scowl a bolt of thunder. He was smart, and generous, and honorable without fail. He could exile a trespasser, check my math homework, and fix the leaky bathroom sink, all before dinner. For the longest time, I thought he was invincible. Above the petty problems that plagued normal people. And now he was gone
Rachel Vincent
Sympathy Messages For The Loss Of Grandmother
The unconditional affection your grandma gave you throughout your life surely be missed by the person you know whose grandmother recently died away. They have lost a dear friend, therefore this is a very difficult moment for them.
Take solace in these words and know that your grandmother is at peace even if you were the one to lose her.
Even though your granny has passed her memories will live on with you. Try to hold onto those during this difficult time. My condolences
If you need anything don’t hesitate to ask. I know you and your grandmother were very close so this must be extraordinarily hard for you. I can be there for support or just to talk if you need me
You and your whole family will be in my thoughts. Your grandmother meant the world to so many people and her loss will be felt by them all. It’s such awful news. My condolences
I can offer nothing but these few words to hopefully comfort you and to be there as a friend. Whatever it is you need I’ll make it my duty to help
Grandma’s didn’t come any better than yours. She was amazing and her loss will leave a huge hole in so many lives
Try to remember the good times and how amazing your grandmother was. She would want you to carry you and be strong
We were so terribly shocked to learn of your grandmothers passing and so saddened by it. Her loss will be felt by many and we’ve lost a great woman. I’m sending you all my love and hope you’re coping ok
All my sympathies for the loss of your wonderful grandma. She was as loving as she was funny and I feel lucky to have known her. She will never be forgotten
Just a quick note to say how sorry I am for your loss and that I’m thinking of you. I’m here if I’m needed
I am here for you if you need me. Don’t hesitate to ask for anything
Your grandmother was a truly special lady who we will all miss
I can only say how sorry I am for the loss of your dear grandma
You are in my thoughts and prayers
Condolence Messages For The Loss Of A Grandfather
This grieving process will take a long time and be very difficult. Everyone has their own way of thinking about mortality, but what we can do for one another is to express that we care. To let them know that they are in our prayers. Even though it might seem like the bare minimum, sometimes all someone wants to know is that they are not alone.
Use one of these messages to let the mourning person know that they can always rely on you if you do not have the appropriate words to say it or if you want to express your sympathies in the correct way but are unsure how.
I’m praying for you and your family to stay strong during this difficult time
Your grandpa would be so proud of you!
Your grandpa was the best, I’m so happy I met him!
Your grandpa was a fighter. I’m so sad to hear he’s gone, but I pray you can tap into his strength
I hope you and your family heal in your great-grandpa’s absence. I love you all
I just wanted to write to you and tell you that I love you. I’m sorry to hear about your grandpa
I hope this message finds you on a good day, even in spite of what’s happening in the world. I love you so much
I’m writing to you to express my deepest sympathies. I will be praying for you and your family, but I pray you know it will get better
I just wanted to write to you and tell you that I love you. I’m sorry to hear about your grandpa
We are sharing our condolences for the loss of Grandpa (Name). May He Rest in Heaven
Your Grandpa made me part of the family; I will keep you uplifted in prayer
Words cannot begin to express my feelings of sadness for the loss of your Grandfather. You are in my deepest prayers for strength that only God can provide during times such as this. My deepest prayers
Know that your grandfather’s memory will always serve as a source of comfort, strength, and support for you as you move forward in life. Please accept our deepest condolences
In the midst of grief, it is important to remember all of the happy moments shared with your grandfather. He was an amazing man, and we are all better for having known him
I will miss seeing your Grandpa’s beautiful smile and praying that the Most-High continues to comfort the family in the days ahead
We honor your grandpa’s legacy by celebrating all that he accomplished in this life and recognizing the positive impact he had on those around him
In the midst of grief, it is important to remember all of the happy moments shared with your grandfather. He was an amazing man, and we are all better for having known him
Condolence Messages For Losing A Child
Sending condolences to those who have lost a child is a way to show sympathy for their loss. The loss of a child is among the most devastating things that can ever occur to someone. Since losing a child cannot be compared to other losses, a child is the most cherished person.
Condolences can be sent via text message or condolence cards to the parent or other bereaved family members. Additionally, video messages with condolences and remarks for the family can be used to express sympathy wishes. Let’s have a look at a few examples of sympathy letters delivered in various formats in response to the loss of a kid.
I am saddened to hear about the loss of your son. Truly he was loved by many. We will all miss him
I am always here for you, especially after your loss. Your child was a brilliant light in this world
Being your son’s friend was an honor to me. I will miss him so much
Little girls leave permanent footprints in our hearts. We will celebrate [Name]’s legacy every day
Your son had such an amazing personality, we will all miss him. We are thinking of you during this difficult time and we are here to support you in every way we can
I’m so sorry. My heart aches for you and your entire family. Your [Name] was a beautiful soul inside and out
I just wanted to let you know that your [son/daughter] was an amazing person. Their positivity and warmth touched us all
We deeply feel his loss. Take comfort in knowing how much he touched our lives. He was truly special to us
Though I can’t imagine a world without [Name] in it, I know we are all better because we were blessed with [him/her] in our lives
Condolences For The Loss Of A Sibling
When someone loses a sibling, it’s never easy to know what to say, but you still need to express your sympathies. Their family can be much comforted by only a few short words. Don’t wait too long to offer your condolences; start planning your response as soon as you learn about the loss. As soon as you can, call or send a message, but keep it short. Be thoughtful, compassionate, and open to listening. It’s sometimes helpful to speak briefly before pausing to listen to the griever.
There’ll never be anyone quite like your sister. Our most sincere condolences to you and your family
I never knew your brother, but I can only imagine the pain that you’re going through. Please accept my sincerest condolences as you go through this tough time
Throughout our friendship, your sister was always there to play a part in the fond memories we share. She’ll not be forgotten. Please extend my condolences to the rest of the family
She left us all far too soon. Our thoughts and prayers are with you as you cope with the loss of your sister
It was an honor to have gotten to know your sister. She was a wonderful person, and I’m sorry for your loss
Please accept my sympathies over the loss of your beloved brother. If there is anything at all that I could do to help you get through this, please let me know
I will never forget the great times we had growing up, and every instance your sister became a part of them. I’m deeply saddened by your loss and extend my condolences to you and your family
You have our deepest condolences during this sore and sad time. Every memory of your sibling will be treasured within our hearts
We are all thinking of you, praying for you, and interceding on your behalf; that the Lord brings you strength, peace, and comfort at heart, though these difficult times
Your sister has finished the race and is now celebrating in Heaven. As we mourn her loss, let’s also celebrate her memory as she would have wanted us to do
I was deeply grieved at the news of your brother’s passing. Please accept my deepest sympathies, and extend my condolences to the rest of your family
May the Lord ease the pain you’re feeling over your sister’s passing, and bring you peace, comfort, and strength in ways that will see you through. I’m sorry for your loss and extend my condolences to you and your family
Sympathy Messages For Losing A Spouse
Couples make plans for every part of their lives, from having children to growing old together. Their plan is to stay together as long as possible, but they don’t plan for death. Because of this, when one of them dies, it’s almost impossible for the other to deal with such a big loss.
Losing a spouse can be the most painful thing a person can go through. You’ve dreamed up a whole life together. You can’t wait to go home at night and tell that one person everything that happened during the day. It’s like having a best friend as a husband. A person you can be yourself around. You can call this person your home. He listens to you, helps you when things are hard, and believes in you even when no one else does. It’s like losing your home when you lose your husband. You feel like you’re a stranger in your own home.
My heartfelt condolences. Your husband was an incredible man and he has left us far too soon
I was so shocked to hear of your wife’s passing. You are in my thoughts and prayers
I’m deeply sorry for the loss of your dear husband. You are in my thoughts and prayers
Your wife was a wonderful woman. She will be greatly missed. My deepest sympathies
You have my sincere condolences, and I will keep you close in my thoughts and prayers in the coming weeks. Stay strong
I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your wife. My thoughts are with you and your family
I was so saddened to hear of your husband’s passing. He was a truly special man and will be sorely missed. You have our deepest sympathy
Your wife will be missed by all who were lucky enough to know her. May you find peace and love in the memories you cherish. My condolences
Please know that you have our deepest sympathy for the loss of your husband. I know it will do little to help but you are in our thoughts during this tragic time
Please accept our condolences on the loss of your wife. She was a special person and we share in your grief
Please accept my deepest sympathies over the death of your husband. He was a wonderful man
I know nothing I can say will make things better but I just wanted you to know I am thinking of you in these difficult times
My heartfelt sympathy for the loss of your husband. His memory will not be forgotten
We are truly sorry to hear of the loss of your wife. May the love of family and friends help comfort you in this time of grief
Please accept my deepest sympathies over the death of your husband. He was a wonderful man
Our hearts are saddened to learn of the loss of your wife. Her spirit and generosity will not be forgotten. Please know we are with you
Your husband was one of the most generous and kind people you could hope to meet. My heart goes out to you and your family
I just heard about your wife’s passing. Please know you and your family are in my thoughts
I just heard the awful news about your husband and wanted to let you know how truly sorry I am. I hope you are holding up ok and if you need anything just let me know
Your wife was an amazing woman who touched everyone she knew. We are so sorry to learn of her passing and are wishing you peace and comfort during this hard time
May you find comfort in knowing that your husband touched so many lives. He will be missed greatly
Please accept these flowers, our condolences for your loss and hear the words we are not able to speak
It was such a shock to hear if your husbands passing. I can’t express how sorry I am. Please accept my most heartfelt condolences
I am so deeply saddened by your loss. Your wife will be in our hearts and memories. Stay strong
Your husband was an exceptional man who always had time for others. The community will not be the same without his presence. My condolences
We are so lucky to have you as a friend and are saddened to hear of your wife’s passing. Please know you are in our thoughts and have our most heartily condolences
It was an absolute honour to have known your husband. He was a man of his word, generous to a fault and more caring than anyone I’ve known. He will be sorely missed
Please accept my sincerest condolences for the passing of your spouse. If I can do anything to help ease the burden don’t hesitate to ask
I am so sorry to hear of your husband’s death. You and your family will be in my prayers and thoughts
Sending my strongest sympathies for your loss. Your wife was much more than just a colleague but a true friend. I will miss her dearly. Don’t hesitate to call if you need anything
Sympathy Etiquette
Be thoughtful, show you care, and lend a listening ear. Sometimes it’s best to say a few words and then stay quiet and listen to the griever.
Remember that this is a very hard time for everyone in the family. So don’t think you can “lift their spirits.” Nothing you say or do will make them feel better about what happened. Instead, put more effort into making people feel better and being kind.
Offer Comfort
Instead of trying to find the perfect words, just say, “I’m so sorry for your loss.” Then be quiet and really hear what your friend has to say.
Act kindly
Even if you sent a note of sympathy, you should still call to say you’re sorry. If you are close to the person who survived, go see them and bring them food.
Offer to help in some way. If the person is taking care of funeral arrangements, offer to watch their kids, help them with a chore, or do something else to make their life easier.
At the Service
Talk to each family member and tell them you’re sorry, but don’t talk for too long. Now is the time to go to the funeral, show that you care, and give the family some space if they need it. You can also take funeral flowers.
But if you are good friends with one of the family members who are still alive, they may want to talk to you a little longer. Be there for them, but don’t worry about saying the right thing. Don’t say anything if you don’t know what to say. To show you care, it’s often best to just listen or give them a hug.
After the Service
Give your friend a few days after the funeral to grieve with her family. Then give them a call and see if they want to talk. Listen to what they say and accept what they say. If they don’t want to talk, don’t take it to heart.
Send them a card in a few weeks to let them know you’re thinking of them. Again, you should offer to help and be ready to listen. So many people offer their condolences right after someone dies, but this tends to stop soon after the funeral.
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