To truly love your wife, leave her alone every once in a while. (Malay Proverb)
A heavy load should be borne together as well as a light load. (Malay Proverb)
If you want something, you'll do a thousand things to obtain it. But if you don't want something, you'll give a thousand excuses to refrain from it. (Malay Proverb)
Trumpet in a herd of elephants; crow in the company of cocks; bleat in a flock of goats. (Malay Proverb)